Should I take my child(ren) out of school for a family vacation?
Oh, the age old question… When is it OK to take your kids out of school for a vacation? Since I am without children in school (or children at all for that matter) I interviewed a few teachers/ professors, and the general consensus to my very specific example of my birthday cruise next year was YES! Travel can be a very educating and life changing for children of all ages. So when you travel, make sure that the kids are learning something from it.
Occasions that are typically not frowned upon:
- International Travel – Kids can learn a lot by experiencing a different culture.
- Family Reunion – Family bonds are important to everyone.
- Cruises – The kids centers are so packed full of educational activities, they will never have a dull moment.
Some trips are better left for taking during vacation though:
- Disneyland / Disney World – Sorry Mickey, I can not justify the learning aspect.
- Any theme parks in general – Flying on a broomstick with Harry Potter probably is not going to fly with a teacher, although I would argue that SeaWorld is very educational.
- Staying at a beach house or resort – Great for the views but not the education.
Tips for Taking Your Child Out of School
□ Meet With Teachers
- Get any homework that the kids can do during the vacation. There will always be some down like waiting in the airport and sitting on the plane.
- Also ask for any extra assignments that could fill in any gaps that they will miss.
- Be sure to meet with the teachers at least three weeks ahead of time and be sure to remind them a few days before the trip too.
- Buy your kids a cheap or disposable camera so they can take their own pictures of their favorite spots.
- Use the upcoming vacation as a reward (bribery) for your kids to do well in school leading up to the trip.
- Buy (or rent from the library) kid friendly books about the destination so your children will be excited about the trip and learn about the new culture or history ahead of time.
- Any vacation that is a week or less is typically acceptable. Don’t push it though, longer than that could put your kids too far behind.
□ Make It an Educational Vacation
- Create a journal for each child so they can keep detailed notes. Maybe even have them write a short essay about the trip when they get home.
- Research and plan to visit fun museums or historic sites to visit during your trip. Or better yet, have the children research educational things to do in your destination.
- If you are taking a cruise, there are tons of educational and fun activities that will keep the kids busy in the youth center.
- On Princess Cruises they have activities like art projects, sports tournaments, California Science Center workshops, Jr.CHEF@Sea, and Klutz® projects. If you want to check out everything they offer, visit their website at: http://www.princess.com/learn/onboard/activities/youth_teen/index.html
- Plus, meeting kids from different states or countries is a great way for the kids to make pen pal friends.
If you want additional information, I also ran found this article that had some more details.